problem activation and cob. htaccess file

Hi all, after spending 3 days in order to understand how and where I had to give the file .... write permissions, I find now that the enabling vBseo, does not give me access to the discussions.
I've tried everything and every kind of Italian forum, but I can not figure out where wrong and why.
Just vbseo active, not access to discussions, just off the yes.
Can you help me?
Graznie infinitely!

p.s. I asked for help to support, but this time they gave me a link within which solutions are unable to enter.
If I'd known I would have bought also send license together with the installation, but I thought to do it and now I can not buy it. (I mean the installation, at least so I understood).

Another p.s. use google translator, so forgive my English.: O

Hello,

You are using IIS, not apache. Therefore, htaccess is not what you need to use. htaccess is for Apache. You need to use the ISAPI rule set installed to your server instead.

Hello and thank you for having responded to me!
All this for me now has become a nightmare as well as a puzzle, since I am not an expert architect and programmer.
But based on your response to what or how should I behave?
I've already done a web search on "ISAPI segola", but before I try to study it or understand something, I would not call the first ones that give me the web hosting service and ask if I can turn on Apache?
Alternatively, if I may ask you of course, how would you have links or guides online that explain me step by step how to do?
Thanks as always!

Hi Matteo,

If you haven't managed to resolve this issue, please don't hesitate to ask for support via ticket. We will be more than glad to assist, just be sure to supply RDC (Remote Desktop Control) access for troubleshooting

ok, thank you once I send them the request, thanks!