Ability to add/delete URLs

I'm using the vbadvanced
& my sitemap keeps showing
index.php?home
because I have to define it in... someplace

It had me thinking
I'm love it if we could manually add a few URLs
to the sitemap
or tell it to not include a few...

Hello,

you can add any non-included URLs to the sitemap by manually editing the "extra-urls.txt" file.

As for vba pages exlusion, you can do that by modifying the vbseo_sm_vba.php addon code in the following way:
FIND:

while ($mod = $db->fetch_array($mods))

ADD BELOW:

if($mod['name']!='home')